No one wants to be reminded of or asked to dredge up from the past their embarrassing misdeeds.
Gino says, having to remember your unethical behavior “creates psychological distress and discomfort,” so we go hazy and foggy and we obfuscate the truth. We do a nuanced dance on the head of a pin.
As time passes, you start to forget the true details of the event, and after a drink at the bar, that five can become a four. After a few hours, the truth slips into the lake, just like your first tee shot. When we are confronted by the other person with the facts, we become uncomfortable. We change the subject. We know the truth. We would just prefer you didn’t remind me. We politely “forget.”
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