At first, I thought it was so nice to have someone who seemed to really like me, but now that the fireworks have faded, I’m feeling crushed and smothered. What should I do?
Dear Lisi: My girlfriend is aggressive and I’m not sure what to do about it. She pursued me about three months ago, and I was flattered and interested. She was very keen and tried to spend a lot of time with me — more than I was interested in. But she was persistent and insistent.
At first, I thought it was so nice to have someone who seemed to really like me, but now that the fireworks have faded, I’m feeling crushed and smothered. I don’t necessarily want to end things with her; I just want some time to myself, my friends, my other interests and hobbies.I suggest you take your girlfriend out for a nice, long evening walk in the park. Hold her hand, give her hugs, kiss.
Dear Lisi: I really like this boy who works with me at my summer job. He’s a year older, going into Grade 12. We don’t live that far away from each other, but we go to different high schools. He’s really cute and so nice to everyone. He’s warm and friendly to me, but I can’t tell if he’s just treating me like everyone else or if he’s giving me special treatment, which I would like.
The opportunity will present itself for you to tell him how you feel when you’re ready, and when you feel fairly confident how he feels. However, if it is obvious that he only likes you as a friend, it’ll be up to you to decide if you’d like to continue that friendship, or, if that would be too hard for you under the circumstances.Reader – “You should have smacked that nasty judgmental woman down for deeming her co-worker’s ‘bushy and black’ armpits an ‘affront.
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