Dear Amy: My husband of 50 years died over two years ago.
How should I handle this situation?Your daughter has told you that she will meet your male friend when she is ready. So — take her at her word.
You do not have to exclude your friend when your daughter is around, thus letting your daughter control your friendship.I hope you will talk with her about this. Reassure her that you have no desire to replace her father and have no thoughts of marrying again. This gentleman and you have both lost spouses, and this friendship has helped you to move through your loss. Ask your daughter to share her own feelings or fears about this relationship, and listen with compassion.
I’m always tempted to ask them why they think a dog or cat can replace a child, but since I know that would be rude, I keep my mouth shut. Approximately two-thirds of Americans do have pets in their homes, and so there is a likelihood that this question would lead to a conversation, instead of you thinking their interest or curiosity is inappropriate.
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