Mom pressures hard-working and generous 24YO daughter to give full access to her savings account, she flatly refuses.
The author of the post is 24 years old, but she had built up a fairly decent emergency fund for herself, aspiring to buy a house one dayThe author was always very financially supportive of her relatives, but nevertheless, she didn’t want to share control over her savingsThe mom dubbed the daughter “selfish” for this refusal, and her elder sis noted that she’s overreacting here
And recently, she had a dispute with her own mother over this money. The lady asked her daughter for full access to her account. No, our heroine has never refused any financial assistance to her relatives – especially since her younger brother needsThe author tried to avoid a direct refusal by offering her mother a certain amount of money at any time – but this was obviously not enough for the mom.
And now the woman is thinking and experiencing mental anguish – ‘what to do?’ To refuse means to offend her mother, who will definitely say that the daughter doesn’t trust her. To agree means to risk her hard-earned money – because there are actuallyWell, technically, it’s actually quite easy to give another person the opportunity to manage your bank account – and you don’t even necessarily need to tell them your credentials.
“As for the moral aspects of this situation, this is a classic attempt to manipulate the mind of another person. For this woman’s, refusal immediately meant that her daughter didn’t trust her, and she said so directly,” says Irina Matveeva, aAccording to the expert, the specifics of relationships in many families are such that even if the mother spends this money, any claim from the daughter will subsequently turn against her.
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