A man writes to a relationship advice columnist seeking suggestions for an affair due to his wife's lack of interest in intimacy. The columnist suggests exploring alternative solutions, such as communication and seeking professional help, to address the underlying issues in the marriage.
Dear Lisi: I’m looking to have an affair. That may sound crazy because most affairs happen “by accident” to people who are already married. This often leads to a problem between the married couple, and then either they divorce, or they move past it. I’m married, but very unhappily. My wife is in full menopause and totally uninterested in any intimacy and sexual activity. I’ve made overtures, we’ve talked about it, I’ve begged her, but she’s shut the door to her sexual being.
I’m sure you’re thinking that there are other ways to “get it on” with my wife, but I’ve tried EVERYTHING! And I’m tired of self-pleasure. I need some human touch. But I do NOT want to go to a prostitute. Do you have any suggestions? Horny as Hell In fact, I do. I recently learned of a website specifically for people looking for a lover, with no strings attached. You create a profile, usually with some sexual overtone, and then hope for the best. People reach out to you, while you can reach out to people too. For those I know who have used this site, once there is a connection made, conversation ensues and a chance to get to know a little bit about one another. You can chat for as long as you want before meeting in person. But when you do meet in person, the point is to get between the sheets. So, it’s not a dating site…. it’s a “let’s have sex” site. That’s the practical piece. But as a relationship advice columnist, I’m guessing that you wrote to me because you’d rather work on your relationship then have an affair. So, here’s my suggestion: take your wife out on a romantic date. Don’t push the sex issue. And just talk. Get her to open up about what’s going on with her, both physically and emotionally. Suggest to her that you want to help her live a full life and that you’d like to go with her to the doctor to learn more about what she’s going through and how you can have a happy marriage – in every sense of the word – togethe
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