Quarreling with your spouse is normal, but some arguments really make you want to get a little petty.
You're on the list! Expect to receive your first email very soon!comes with its fair share of ups and downs, and the occasional quarrel is to be expected. Usually, a sincere apology and a hug can patch things up, but sometimes, a disagreement cuts deep enough to make you want to get a little petty.resorted to after her husband accused her of being wasteful when she spent $950 on their monthly grocery run.
A common mistake couples make is assuming they share the same values and views about money without ever actually addressing them. “This leads to sometimes vicious fights, arguing over whose perspective is the ‘right’ one,”Lisa Marie Bobby, a licensed marriage and family therapist.
Many couples also overlook the importance of regularly checking in on their financial situation, particularly when one person becomes the default money manager. While it’s fine for one partner to take the lead, both should have a basic understanding of their finances, believes Knight. How much is coming in? How much is going out? What are the big financial goals? Without this shared knowledge, unexpected issues can arise and cause unnecessary stress.
If arguments about money are left unresolved because they’re uncomfortable to talk about, they’re likely to resurface again and again. “It becomes this cycle that couples sometimes get stuck in,”LaQueshia Clemons, a licensed clinical social worker. She recommends revisiting the topic within 24 hours and starting the conversation by acknowledging something positive about how your partner takes care of money. It’s a simple way to keep the atmosphere positive and prevent any lingering bitterness.
Lastly, financial discussions often revolve around budgeting or saving, which can make them feel like a chore. Megan McCoy, an assistant professor at Kansas State University,adding a little fun to the mix. For example, she and her husband buy a Powerball ticket twice a year and spend a date night dreaming about what they would do if they won. “I really think it’s a huge mistake to only talk about scarcity—where we should cut, how we should budget,” she says.
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