Have you ever had a no-sex orgasm? It's time you did
According to a new book, reconnecting with your sexual self , starts by forgetting everything you think you know about sex - and starting again. Annie Ridout tests it out..
I’ve got no lack of attraction or desire but, with all these barriers, it’s no wonder our sex life has gone down my priority list. And so, when I was offered an opportunity to try out a new method that promised to re-engage my mind and body in sex, in fact to increase my ‘Partners in both work and love, psychotherapists Mike Lousada and Louise Mazanti’s debut bookis a ‘how to’ for reconnecting with your sexual self. They say we all need to strip back our learned ideas about sex, to start again.
Whoa. This is pretty far from my experience. And if we can orgasm without touching, by simply tuning into ‘energies’, couldn’t we ‘have sex’ with every person we found attractive? Lousada responds, that to feel attraction to someone is not to have sex with them. That sounds like quite a list to master. He says that without erotic intelligence we tend to approach sex from our minds, with a preconceived idea of what it’s supposed to look and feel like. We “take ourselves out of connection with our bodies and out of connection with our partner”., to open my body and mind to new possibilities. But then I do yoga and I meditate, and friends would probably describe me as a bit of a hippie, so it wouldn’t surprise them that this appeals to me.
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