Woman casually dates guy who showers her with expensive gifts, but breaks things off with him when things get serious, causing him to ask for his gifts back.
Dating these days is like ordering a salad and getting a three-course meal with a side of drama. One minute, you’re just looking for some casual fun, and the next, you’re knee-deep in a melodrama that would put daytime TV to shame. Imagine thinking you’re in for a simple fling and suddenly you’re tangled in a mess of lavish gifts, mixed signals, and a Reddit “Am I the A-hole?” dilemma.
After the breakup, the two met again, by chance. As Bob spotted Jill, he decided it was the perfect time to ask for the expensive earrings he had given her back. His logic? Since he spent a lot ofon them, he should get them back to give to someone who’d actually reciprocate his affection. Jill refused, stating that a gift is a gift, and it wasn’t fair for him to expect them back just because he didn’t get the outcome he wanted. We’re wondering how many previous owners those earrings had.
“It can be unpleasant to refuse a gift, but if you stay polite, even formal, you can do it. It helps to stay focused on the long term. Taking something now means giving something later. If you’re not prepared to be indebted to this person, the best thing to do is to deal with the discomfort of refusing a gift,” experts explain.
So, what’s your take on this drama-packed story? Was Jill wrong for keeping the earrings? Drop your thoughts in the comments! Let’s hear your nuggets of wisdom.
Canada Latest News, Canada Headlines
Similar News:You can also read news stories similar to this one that we have collected from other news sources.
Friends Make A Pregnant Woman Follow Her Own Child-Free Rules, Get Called Petty And SelfishThis group of women agreed that it would be best not to discuss their children when together. But now that their 'infertile' friend is pregnant, she suddenly wants to change the rules.
Read more »
Woman Gets Offended When Friends Enforce Her “No Talking About Babies” Rule When She’s PregnantThis group of women agreed that it would be best not to discuss their children when together. But now that their 'infertile' friend is pregnant, she suddenly wants to change the rules.
Read more »
Woman Gets Offended When Friends Enforce Her “No Talking About Babies” Rule When She’s PregnantThis woman refused to accept a handmade baby shower gift and demanded that her brother-in-law bought something off the registry instead.
Read more »
Calgary woman reunites with woman she says saved her lifeA Calgary mother who is battling breast cancer and suffered a recent serious health scare got the opportunity to thank the stranger who she says saved her life.
Read more »
Pregnant Woman’s Husband Treats Their Daughters Unequally, Woman Threatens To Divorce HimAdopted husband favors adopted kid over biological one, wife who’s had enough of the unequal treatment threatens divorce if things don’t change
Read more »
Feds poised to ramp up efforts to recover $9B in COVID benefitsCanada Revenue says it will take legal action to recoup overpayments to non-responsive Canadians
Read more »