SeeingSomeone: 'I wouldn’t be as upset if he was just watching porn, but something about paying for OnlyFans makes this feel worse to me. My question is: Should I be so bothered by this? Am I overreacting considering he’s not physically cheating on me?'
Back in Renaissance times, you had to commission a whole-ass painting to get a piece of erotic media. Not only does OnlyFans make it much easier to solicit nudes, it also blurs the line between watching porn and engaging in some kind of cheatingThe platform is still pretty new, so there’s no clear cultural script that tells us whether using it should be considered infidelity, and while traditional internet porn and OnlyFans usually involve erotic imagery, there are some important differences.
My friend Elizabeth thinks it might be. She says if her boyfriend paid to see a specific person on OnlyFans, she’d feel uncomfortable; it would feel like he’s choosing someone over her, which triggers insecurities around her own desirability. I’m asking you these questions to help you define some boundaries. There is no objective way for people in relationships to handle OnlyFans usage. It’s up to you to define what feels like cheating and what doesn’t and then communicate your boundary to your boyfriend.
Now for the hard part — actually talking this through. But don’t worry too much, you’re armed; you know exactly what your boundaries are, and how your needs are going unmet. Be prepared to articulate those things to him and see if he is willing to make changes to satisfy them.
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