He apologized for the times he ghosted me because he couldn’t handle relationships.
We talked for two and half hours, and it was like we were back to our deployment and inseparable. It brought feelings I have never had before, but it also brought confusion and conflict. I love my fiance. He’s a great man, and a single parent. I don’t know what to say to the old flame. Can you help?Tell the old flame you accept his apology for the multiple times he ghosted you and wish him luck in his self-improvement project, but explain that you are now engaged to a wonderful man.
I have been divorced for 25 years and have no contact with their “father.” It was a choice we made because of his infertility, but we never discussed telling the children. Now I’m torn about what to do because they still have contact with him despite his being verbally abusive. I need peace of mind. Help, please.Your “children” are adults. You and your former husband solved his infertility problem, and you were able to raise two healthy, contributing members of society.
Because of the popularity of DNA testing, it would be better if your children heard this news from you rather than from who knows how many half-siblings they may have. Infertility isn’t shameful. Tell them what they need to know.My local area TV meteorologists and reporters have a terrible habit of calling rainy weather “miserable,” cloudy weather “gloomy,” and any other non-sunny day “dreary.
For some emotionally vulnerable members of our community, these negative words could be dangerous. Weather is weather. When we were kids, my friends and I would play outside in the rain and none of us ever thought of it as gloomy, dreary or miserable. Using such a powerful medium as television in this way could have a negative impact on people who are already in a dark place.
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