I’m left with the conclusion that either no one cared, or they were for some reason afraid to see someone with Alzheimer’s.
Maybe the thinking was that Dad wouldn’t remember the visit, so why bother? None of those alternatives are comforting, and I’m finding it hard to think of most of my relatives the way I used to.
While my advice is too late to help you and your family members, I encourage others in your situation to be open and honest in their conversations with family and friends. Let them know that while Alzheimer’s disease has changed your family member, their friendship and presence is valuable to everyone involved.
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