He lives up north and I reside in Florida, so we won’t meet in person.
Since his wife refuses him sex and because he has been attracted to me from the day we met at work 20 years ago, what do you think about our continued phone sex?To paraphrase William Shakespeare, “A rose is a rose by any other name.” So is adultery.
I haven’t seen the woman in more than a year. The daughter and dad sometimes walk together with the dog. My reason for wanting to know is to understand their circumstance -- did she pass away, did she leave her husband? It’s like she simply vanished.The next time you see the husband say, “I used to see your wife walking so often. I haven’t seen her in about a year. How is she?”For the last 14 months, I’ve been in a relationship with a man I adore. Things have been great.
In the beginning, I didn’t feel I had the right to say anything about it, and he assured me she would eventually move. Well, now we can’t even discuss the issue without getting upset. He says it’s financial. I say he could find another roommate. I suspect he’s just making excuses. I don’t think we can move forward in our relationship with this baggage in our way. I need some advice.Actually, I’m not sure you need my advice because your thinking is crystal clear.
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