She doesn’t appreciate my musical talent, and I think I could be a stud with the ladies.
The combination of a wife who doesn’t appreciate my art and the temptation of once again being the stud I was and resuming those wonderful adventures is enough incentive for me to end my marriage.
Once my music starts hitting streaming platforms, I expect great things. But since my wife is indifferent to my artistic pursuit, I’m conflicted about whether I should remain married to her or risk a lot by getting a divorce. Please help me make the right decision.It’s time for some self-reflection.
My suggestion is that you postpone dynamiting your marriage until after you have a few musical hits under your belt. If you are as gifted as you proclaim, your circumstances may change for the better. But if they don’t, you might be better off sticking to your day job and keeping music as a beloved hobby.
As to kicking over the traces and becoming a “stud” again , perhaps you should be careful what you wish for. There are worse flaws in a spouse than lack of music appreciation. In this environment, there’s no telling who you could pick up, which is why I’m advising you to stand pat.My daughter just told her husband of six years that she no longer wants a relationship with him.She wants to keep things amicable, and has an appointment with an attorney in three weeks, which he is aware of.
If your daughter’s happiness is all you want, stay out of it. However, if you wish to make a feeble effort to save her marriage for the sake of your beautiful grandchildren, suggest that before she throw in the towel they both talk with a marriage and family therapist. If she ignores your suggestion, you’ll at least know you tried.
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