Being a people-pleaser nearly wrecked me because I didn't value myself. Now I'm confident and much happier — here's what it took (via medium)
Being a people-pleaser can seem harmless. But giving yourself to others constantly can take its toll. Writer Vanessa Torre found herself constantly giving to others in the hope that they would see her as worthy. But her people-pleasing reached a breaking point when she was giving all of herself to someone she was dating — and not placing enough value on herself. Now, instead of being a metaphorical gardener constantly watering flowers so they can bloom, she sees herself as a flower.
Being a people-pleaser can seem harmless. But giving yourself to others constantly can take its toll. Writer Vanessa Torre found herself constantly giving to others in the hope that they would see her as worthy. But her people-pleasing reached a breaking point when she was giving all of herself to someone she was dating — and not placing enough value on herself. Now, instead of being a metaphorical gardener constantly watering flowers so they can bloom, she sees herself as a flower.
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