Boyfriend’s past loves shouldn’t be cause for concern
Dear Lisi: My daughter has a new boyfriend who seems lovely. I’ve only met him a few times, and each time he’s polite, friendly, smiley and talkative.
He’s only 17! How many girlfriends has he had? If the tables were turned, what would people be saying about my daughter? Should I be worried about my inexperienced daughter being with someone older?As a parent, you should always be worried about your children. I say that tongue-in-cheek because obviously it’s not healthy to always be worried, but sometimes we can’t help ourselves.
Hopefully, you will feel at ease after your conversation, knowing that she is informed, educated, aware, and prepared. Also, impress upon her that you are there to support her in any way, and that she can rely on you. Set up a safe word that she can use with you if she’s ever uncomfortable.Dear Lisi: I am obsessed with a guy who lives on my floor. We are both students at the university and live near campus in student housing.
Then let it play out organically. You could become good friends, you could start dating, or you could remain as friendly neighbours. Time will tell.Reader – “I don’t think we’re seeing the whole picture. Over a year and neither set of parents had reached out to the other? Of course, the shower would be awkward.
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