Husband deserves to know how you’re feeling and why you’re done.
Dear Lisi: My husband has no idea that I have one foot out the door. I put on a great show. We go about our daily routine, and I feel like a robot on autopilot. I get up, get dressed, make myself a lunch and leave for work all before 8 a.m. At the end of the workday, I go to the gym, out for dinner with friends, or home to have dinner with him. He literally thinks everything is fabulous.
The two of you are wasting your own lives and each other’s time. If you can’t have a conversation alone, get to a therapist/marriage counsellor as soon as possible. If you want out, tell that to the counsellor in front of your husband. He may say the same thing. But he deserves to know how you’re feeling and why you’re done.
They’ve also booked an adventure for us and a fancy restaurant. All paid for by them, though I offered to pitch in. I have just found out that the person who originally offered to drive me has told his girlfriend that she could boot me out of the car if she wants to give one of her friends a lift. Showing your appreciation will endear you to her and hopefully she won’t boot you out of the car. Also, confirm the departure time with her so you can tell your family where and when to pick you up.
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