Dear Anna, I’m worried that my boyfriend of 1.5 years is cheating on me.
“Ask Anna” is a sex column. Because of the nature of the topic, some columns contain language some readers may find graphic.I’m worried that my boyfriend of 1.5 years is cheating on me. I was looking for a computer cord in his work bag and discovered a pair of panties that were obviously not mine, and frankly would never fit me. They’re about twice as large as the size I usually wear. When I brought this up angrily, he accused me of not respecting his privacy and shut the conversation down.
Of course, knowing that he MIGHT have a cross-dressing panty fetish doesn’t help a damn thing if he won’t talk to you about it. So you’re going to have to go back to him and have a more level-headed conversation. You can try to circumvent the shutting down response in a few ways: Consider having this talk while walking in nature. Some people find it easier to have difficult conversations while walking somewhere pretty. It’s less confrontational when you don’t have to constantly look into another’s eyes, and being outdoors has on the nervous system. Even a park or other green space can help if you can’t, like, run off to the woods.
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