Letter writer wants to date men but is having trouble attracting them.
I love your column and how you relate your own experiences in your answers. My question is one I have not seen particularly addressed. I am a 58-year-old gay man and have identified as bi for most of my adulthood. I have had significant relationships with both women and men.
Women hit on me all the time, but men seem to not realize I’m available or possibly interested. As a contributing handicap, I am not attracted to most gay men. How do I go about meeting potential mates without surprising, angering or terrifying the guys I’m attracted to?You have graciously invited me to relate to you through my own experience and so I will offer this: Like you, in middle age I was single for more than 15 years, “barring a few random hookups with men.
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