Other couples don’t want to hear about our open marriage: Ask Ellie
Q:My wife of 16 years and I have had an “open” relationship for three years. It works for us, without jealousy or concern, but some close friends are uncomfortable with our choice.
When we met 17 years ago, we were both wary of marriage. We felt that there must be a better way to stay together. It’s worked for us. But two once-close couples have distanced from us. One man said we were “playing with words” but it was still cheating. The wife of another said if we mention it again, the friendship’s over. Your thoughts?Coming from such emotional upheaval as children, it’s not surprising that you’ve both searched for security in your marriage.You’ve already surmounted your parents’ negative influence. You have what you always wanted most.
If yes, then it’s your business. I’m responding to your outreach for my thoughts: Your close friends have overreacted, perhaps fearing that their partner or themselves will want to try it. Don’t raise the topic with them again.
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