A letter-writer believes fiancée “doesn’t want to make a commitment” because she won’t delete exes from her contact list.
Why limit it to her previous love interests? Why not worry that she’s off with a colleague, or a neighbor, or some guy at the dog park, or that old friend of hers with whom there’s no romantic history … yet?
All you can do is know that both of you will face temptations; know your own behavior and hers; know your own character and hers; and then form the most realistic expectation possible as to whether straying is likely between you. Because none of us can ever have all the information, that trust has to include trusting yourself to handle it if you misjudged her character.
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